Thread:Heimr Arnadalr/@comment-25389622-20150519155125/@comment-25389622-20150524120908

Heimr:

I failed to see the admins put the blame on me for this. I'm pretty sure they have said that we are both at fault. I didn't pressed the issue, only responded, as you have also done. Use of such terms wouldn't require an admin to tell you to stop. It's the type of conduct that goes on unchecked, yet will build up over time; multiple incidents of using such language gets tiring and eventually one feels the need to point it out.

I didn't know that one of Frozen's messages could be taken like that, with regard to embracing bluntness, but then I've learned not to care about what people take away from something. If you feel that way, good for you. But to that end I wouldn't apply how you interpret Frozen into resolving disputes. Bluntness might get things done, but it's not the best way to go about doing so. Basically all I am saying is you can be blunt or whatever, just don't be surprised if you upset people at some point. But as I've said, bluntness wasn't the issue here.

Dragonboy:

I don't follow your first line... I didn't start responding sarcastically to Heimr, if that's what you mean, just called out his sarcasm. The rest makes perfect sense, yet I am still amiss as to how I can avoid confrontation when there is misconduct. It's all well and good telling someone to not take something personally, but sometimes that is the case, especially when another party is deliberately being provocative. You know, stuff like citing "OCD" in an edit summary as a reason to undo an edit.

I can say that I for one will never leave, and it's sad that we have to discuss that as an option. If Heimr also takes in what you have just said, then it should never come to that.

Didn't think so, it's just that there's no template on any other page that requires editing.

My original message was aimed at Heimr, so I saw it fit to post it on his wall. My point in general is that admins should pick up on these things more readily and step in, or anyone for that matter. Should I have originally posted on a forum I may not have gotten a response, though that said Heimr is a bit of an exception because he is good at picking up that sort of thing.